Don't show your soles, no PDA: Essential do's and don'ts every expat should keep in mind in Saudi Arabia

Living in Saudi Arabia offers a unique opportunity to experience one of the most culturally rich and traditional societies in the Middle East . For expatriates, understanding and respecting local customs is key to building successful relationships and navigating daily life. Here’s a comprehensive guide to help expats adapt to social norms and avoid cultural missteps.



1. Dress Code

Do:

• Dress modestly in public. Women are generally expected to wear an abaya and cover their heads, especially in conservative areas.
  
  
• Embrace local attire like a thobe or hijab during cultural or formal events to show respect.
  

Don’t:

• Wear tight, sleeveless, or revealing clothes in public.
  
  
• Assume relaxed rules apply everywhere (conservative areas often expect stricter dress)

2. Social Etiquette and Greetings


Do:

• Greet others with “As-salamu alaykum” and respond with “Wa alaykum as-salam.”
  
  
• Shake hands with men and always use the right hand for greetings, eating, and giving items.
  
  

Don’t:

• Initiate physical contact with the opposite gender unless they initiate it.
  
  
• Skip small talk: Saudis value time spent exchanging pleasantries.
  
  

3. Dining Etiquette


Do:

• Accept invitations to homes and bring a small gift as a token of appreciation.
  
  
• Use the right hand when eating and be ready for extended meals with conversation.
  

Don’t:

• Show the soles of your feet while sitting.
  
  
• Refuse food or drink multiple times as declining too firmly may seem impolite.
  
  

4. Religion and Public Conduct

Do:

• Be mindful of the five daily prayer times when shops and services temporarily close.
  
  
• Respect Ramadan, Eid, and other religious observances.
  
  

Don’t:

• Eat or drink in public during daylight hours in Ramadan.
  
  
• Engage in public displays of affection, which are strictly discouraged.
  
  

5. Photography Etiquette


Do:

• Always ask permission before photographing individuals, especially women.
  
  
• Focus on landscapes, landmarks, and public spaces where photography is permitted.
  

Don’t:

• Photograph locals or private property without consent.
  
  
• Ignore signage indicating photography restrictions especially near government or religious sites.
  
  

6. Work and Business Etiquette


Do:

• Be punctual and formal in business interactions.
  
  
• Respect hierarchy as decision-making may require multiple layers of approval.

Don’t:

• Rush into business talks; Saudis prefer to build trust and rapport first.
  
  
• Assume informality, relationships often begin with structured and respectful communication.
  
  

7. Gender Roles and Public Spaces

Do:

• Follow gender segregation rules in public places like restaurants or waiting areas.
  
  
• Respect current norms regarding women’s dress and access in public spaces.
  

Don’t:

• Expect Western-style gender norms—gender roles are traditionally defined.
  
  
• Use incorrect entrances where separate access is designated for men and women.
  
  

8. Language and Communication

Do:

• Learn basic Arabic phrases to ease daily interactions and show goodwill.
  
  
• Speak politely and use a formal tone, especially in professional settings.
  
  

Don’t:

• Use loud speech or exaggerated gestures: Saudis prefer calm and respectful dialogue.
  
  
• Criticise directly: offer feedback in a considerate and indirect manner.